For our next class presentation Colleen and I are
going to present on the topic of Mentors and Mentorship. I started to do some
research on the topic and I found an article in which the author gives advice
on what kinds of mentors to look for and how to use your mentor as a helpful
guide.
The five pieces of advice are as follows:
1. A good mentor breaks you out of your comfort zone.
There will always be people around to comfort you, but a good mentor is one
that encourages you to keep improving and pushes you into new experiences
2. A good mentor knows your personal strengths and
weaknesses. Try to improve upon your weaknesses by finding the mentor who will
complement them. You don’t always have to be exactly similar to a mentor to get
along. In fact, finding someone with different skillsets than you will be
helpful since you’ll have even more to learn from this person.
3. Know how to utilize your mentor. You’ve finally
found your mentor leader, but now what? A lot of time, mentees asked the
mentors, “what do you think I should be doing?” or “what are the hottest trends
in companies?” Those are the wrong questions to ask as a start before sharing
who you are.
4. Perception vs. reality. Your vision might differ
from the reality of things — be specific and know how to make the most of your
mentors by asking those hard questions. If your relationship with your mentor
still doesn’t align with what your goals, try to take the leap of faith by
asking your mentor if there is anyone else you should connect with or network
with in a certain field.
5. Don’t feel like you have to find someone in your
industry or in the same location. And yes, you should have both men and women
as your mentors. Find those who are very different from you because you’ll get
the best range of possibilities and perspectives. Also, remember that in this
new digital world, you could foster a mentor-mentee relationship via Skype,
Face time and other virtual online tools. This will help you find an even wider
range of mentors to complement your work and give you fresh insights.
I believe that these are good pieces of advice for a
young person looking to pursue a career in any field. I also believe that every
person beginning their career should have a mentor that they can go to for
advice or help, this will allow you to develop into a better professional but
also a better person in general. It is important to find a mentor that you can
just talk to when you might be feeling down or are going through tough times in
life.
I have a standard set of leadership questions I ask at the end of every HLF podcast (if I don't run out of time, which does happen). A couple of them relate to mentorship.
ReplyDeleteI have a lot of literature on mentorship. I'll upload some for you. It's one of my research interests.
Awesome, thank you!
ReplyDeleteI wrote a blog post about an article I found in the Harvard Business Review about mentorship if you are looking for more inspiration!
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